Why Your Friend with a Creative Job Isn’t the Village Idiot

You were out to dinner with your Writer Friend, and the waiter came over to see if you needed anything. This led to a short, friendly conversation with him.

As he walked away, your meal companion apologized for reaching into her purse to get her phone.

She opened her Notes application and explained:

“I have to jot that down. What he said was so perfect for something I’m working on. It just gave me a bunch of ideas.”

You sat back and took a sip of your Syrah while thinking:

“We’re supposed to be having a relaxing dinner. The last thing I’m thinking about right now is work. She’s not doing real work anyway. It’s annoying that she calls it work.”

The nonsensical nature of creative work can bewilder onlookers.

But is creative work that much different from other types of work?

“Find the space where hard work and fun coexist.” – Stefanie Flaxman

The development of a creative career
Since a creative career might be thought of as “fun,” it can also get tangled up with ideas about “luck.”

However, “fun” is not separate from hard work. A fun job can be challenging. You can love work that requires a lot of time and effort.

“Luck” puts a spotlight on an exquisite five-course meal, beautifully plated and served on an elegant banquet table. It ignores the kitchen full of under/over-cooked mistakes and dirty dishes.

I’m the first one to admit that sometimes people are just in the right place at the right time, but I’d also argue that being in the right place at the right time is a direct result of relentless research.

Creative professionals might feel lucky to have their positions, but luck wasn’t the main factor that got them there.

Paying your dues
All jobs require experience, and creative jobs are no exception.

For example, if you want to be a lawyer, you go to law school, pass the Bar Exam, and then apply for the appropriate positions for recent grads.

You’ve also likely had jobs related to the legal profession while you were a student.

If you want to be a professional writer and content marketer, it has to be part of your nature to create when no one is watching.

Artists develop their own bodies of work — most of the time with little or no direction from external sources.

They practice.

They become assistants or apprentices to learn more about their desired fields.

They complete projects to demonstrate their abilities to write, paint, draw, sculpt, etc.

It’s not luck; it’s determination.

And those who succeed have failed faster and found better ways to realize their ambitious dreams.

“Creativity is not linear.” – Stefanie Flaxman

Creative work: it’s about the end result
Here’s where the split happens.

While attaining a creative position is similar to how you land other types of jobs, the day-to-day activities of a creative job often look different.

“The dynamic principle of fantasy is play, a characteristic also of the child, and as such it appears inconsistent with the principle of serious work.

“But without this playing with fantasy no creative work has ever yet come to birth. The debt we owe to the play of imagination is incalculable.

“It is therefore short-sighted to treat fantasy, on account of its risky or unacceptable nature, as a thing of little worth.” – Carl Jung

In other words, creative work can be a hot-ass mess — until it’s not, and you have the precise creation you need.

Rather than tracking the completion of exact tasks during the workday in order to demonstrate that you’re making progress, the final product you deliver is what matters.

That’s why your Writer Friend is still working when you’ve switched off for the day.

As much as she might try to set boundaries around her work, that hot-ass mess may still be simmering at 6:00 p.m. (and not ready to serve).

Emilia Fart, lollipops, and “Goodbye”
I was familiar with YouTuber Emilia Fart, but I never thought I’d like her videos (despite her 750,000+ subscribers).

I assumed the videos were just silly. And I already have go-to channels when I need a silly-fix.

No one had told me they were absurdist.

That’s a completely different story.

“Absurdist” isn’t even entirely accurate since the tone and subject matters in her videos vary.

But the videos on her channel (whether performance art or earnest) are intelligent … and heartfelt … and thoughtful.

I was genuinely surprised and impressed last month when I clicked on one of Emilia’s videos titled “Goodbye.”

I’m not sure why I clicked on it. Maybe I was intrigued by the sprawled out pile of lollipops that appear in the video thumbnail.

I know I expected to check it out for two minutes, perhaps find out a bit more about the candy, and then lose interest.

Instead, I watched all 17 minutes and the time went by quickly.

The themes Emilia covers are related to this post’s topic …

Creativity can be superficial, hollow, and disappointing
It can lead to nowhere and nothing.

But creative professionals know another pathway.

They say “goodbye to empty” and “hello to purpose.”

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